That's Not Our Business

The general point of view of society to gay couples is not so optimistic. Since gay couples of being in a relationship with someone from same sex is not common in a society, they seem so different, furthermore most of the society think they are disgusting. The usual way of being in a relationship is the one with the opposite sex. However it is possible to happen that 2 people from same sex can have some feelings about each other, feelings like love or sexual desire in some way. Maybe we cannot understand how can they feel like this way but still we have to respect their lives, since it is not our business to concern about how they feel or what they do. we should let them to do what they want to do.

Trade for Marriage

     Marriage is a kind of bound between the two people who love each other and make this love official. Lots of people give incredible importance to marriage. They think that it is the only way to have a relationship or sexual interaction with someone. Especially conservative people strictly restricts even hanging out of two people from different sexes together. They do not allow their daughters to go out with a boy, since they think that every interaction between two people from different sexes may lead to a sexual relationship and this situation may damage the girl's social position. I think this thought is disgusting, since they treat females like they were some kind of commodity that only one sexual relationship might make it worthless. Since they see females like a commodity, the marriage is seem like a trade. If we look at the definition of marriage that I wrote, marriage stems from a kind of love, however we cannot mention about love during a trade. Marriage should be by love not by a trade. And these are my thoughts about what marriage is marriage and what it is not.